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How to Prepare for Simchat Torah
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How to Prepare for Simchat Torah

Getting Ready for Simchat Torah Simchat Torah caps off the Sukkot season and marks something distinct: the completion of the annual Torah reading cycle and the start of a brand...
— Jeanie Milbauer
Happy sukkot
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How to Build a Sukkah

Sukkot commemorates the temporary shelters the Israelites lived in during their 40 years in the desert after leaving Egypt. It marks the start of fall and the new Torah-reading cycle, observed by building a temporary outdoor hut (sukkah) with at least 2.5 walls and a roof of branches or plant material (schach) open enough to see the stars.

Building it takes four steps:

  1. Pick the spot — outdoors, fully open to the sky (no trees or overhangs), built after Yom Kippur, with a stable, reinforced frame.
  2. Add the walls — at least three kosher walls (the third can be partial), fabric stretched and secured starting right of the entrance.
  3. Add the roof (schach) — support boards across the frame, then kosher branches/mats laid over them, shading most of the space.
  4. Finish and furnish — check structural safety (especially on balconies, and around electrical lines), decorate only once stable, then set the table — candleholders, kiddush cup, and challah cover for evening meals, plus a honey jar and conversation cards to carry the hospitality and conversation through the week.
— Jeanie Milbauer
How to Host a Shabbat Dinner (Beginner Friendly Guide)
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How to Host a Shabbat Dinner (Beginner Friendly Guide)

Hosting your first Shabbat dinner can feel a little intimidating. Between preparing the meal, setting the table, learning the blessings, and memorizing the traditions, many worry they’re going to do...
— Jeanie Milbauer
How to build a shabbat tablescape even if you're short on time
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How To Build A Shabbat Tablescape Even If You’re Short On Time

When the day runs long, keep the ritual short. Candles for glow, bread for comfort, a shared cup, and one calm touch in the middle. That’s all it takes to...
— Jeanie Milbauer
how to celebrate shabbat
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How to Celebrate Shabbat: Find Connection, Not Perfection on Shabbat

It’s about the joy – or oneg – of taking time out of your crazy week to stop, unplug and experience traditions that have helped keep our community together for thousands of years. But most of us find it hard to take that time. 

— Jeanie Milbauer
“To be spiritual is to be amazed.”– Abraham Joshua Heschel